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Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal.
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Saturday Mar 06, 2021
How to Shortcut 4+ Years Off Your Healing Journey
Saturday Mar 06, 2021
Saturday Mar 06, 2021
Therapist in the traditional recovery space will tell you that it takes 3-5 years to heal from a pornography addiction.. And it can take at least as long (maybe longer) for marriages to heal.
I’m on a mission to let people know that there is a more effective way to overcome porn addiction and restore your marriage that doesn’t require nearly as much time.
And in this episode I share one of the most powerful pieces to the puzzle that those traditional experts completely miss than can save you literally 3+ years on your journey.
Here's the link to the video I referenced in the podcast:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apzXGEbZht0
Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.
Want to get in touch?
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!

Thursday Feb 25, 2021
Sex: Processing Triggers, Rejection, Creating Safety and Feeling Desire
Thursday Feb 25, 2021
Thursday Feb 25, 2021
Sexual intimacy is one of the most damaged aspects of a marriage after there's been betrayal from porn addiction.
Yet most couples, don't know how to restore intimacy in a healthy way, navigate the triggers, rejection, and increase trust and desire.
Listen in on an actual coaching session where I help a couple process through triggers and rejection to ultimately feel closer than they ever have together in this area.
Take the tools you hear me share with them and apply them to your own situation to see growth and results in this area of your marriage as well.
Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.
Want to get in touch?
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!

Friday Feb 19, 2021
Relationship Healing For Difficult Marriages
Friday Feb 19, 2021
Friday Feb 19, 2021
Can you heal your marriage if he's still falling back into the addiction?
What if there is abuse?
And is it really safe to be doing work on the relationship early on? (Hint: it's not what you think..)
I talk about each of these scenarios and help you thread the needle through how complex things can get when you're trying to heal and move forward.
Want access to a free couple's course I created for my podcast listeners?
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.
Want to get in touch?
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!

Thursday Feb 11, 2021
The Most Harmful 6-Letter Word That Prevents Permanent Healing
Thursday Feb 11, 2021
Thursday Feb 11, 2021
There is a 6 letter word that MOST people identify with and they need to stop if they want to stop watching porn for good!
So if your goal is to heal from addiction or trauma, avoiding this at all costs if crucial.
Want to get in touch?
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!
Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Thursday Feb 04, 2021
When One Spouse HATES Talking About Feelings – Do THIS
Thursday Feb 04, 2021
Thursday Feb 04, 2021
It's true.. my wife HATES talking about how she feels.. (for real)
And I know there are a lot of people out there who are married to someone who feels similar...
So in this episode I explain exactly how I navigate it and still create a strong relationship with her.
I give you a behind-the-scenes look into my own marriage with her with an undercover recorded conversation where I model for you how to approach a sensitive subject and handle push back.
And no, the conversation we had wasn't staged.. she didn't know I did it at the time. I talked to her afterwards and she didn't care. :)
Want to get in touch? I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!
Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Thursday Jan 28, 2021
He Says He‘s Telling The Truth.. But How Can She Know
Thursday Jan 28, 2021
Thursday Jan 28, 2021
How can she know if he's telling truth? After she find out about his porn addiction, it makes her question everything..
Listen to today's episode to hear my thoughts and how you can avoid the dreaded back and forth of:
Her: "I can't believe what you're saying."
Him: "I'm telling you the truth."
Her: "No, you're not."
Him: "Yes. I don't know what else you want me to say..."
And as always, this episode is for both her AND him, because it's important for him to know how to navigate these moments too – Many times he IS telling the truth, but she can still have reservations and not believe it.
>>> Get in Touch! <<<
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!
>>> Free Course <<<
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org to get access to a free course that I created to help you take the next steps on your journey.
You'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Thursday Jan 21, 2021
The Key to Unlock & Sustain His Motivation For Change
Thursday Jan 21, 2021
Thursday Jan 21, 2021
What should you do he is resistant to changing or fully committing to overcoming the addiction?
The answer might surprise both of you.
In this episode, he will begin to see that motivation isn’t as important as everyone says it is, and she’ll discover that there’s a lot more hope for change than she expected.
>>> Get in Touch! <<<
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!
>>> Free Course <<<
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org to get access to a free course that I created to help you take the next steps on your journey.
You'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Friday Jan 15, 2021
The Best Approach to Heal a Relationship Damaged By Pornography Addiction
Friday Jan 15, 2021
Friday Jan 15, 2021
If you want a stronger relationship, but have been told to focus on yourself instead, this episode will be your guide to perfectly integrating both aspects.
Sadly, most couples are unintentionally neglecting one of the greatest sources of healing, and I want to show you exactly how you can start to tap into and get support from this resource.
>>> Get in Touch! <<<
I'd love to hear from you! If you want help healing addiction, trauma, and the relationship, you can get in touch with me at support@healingcouples.org
Feel free to submit questions or topics you'd like covered in future podcast episodes!
>>> Free Course <<<
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org to get access to a free course that I created to help you take the next steps on your journey.
You'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Friday Jan 08, 2021
Five Unexpected Ways She is Impacted by Pornography Addiction
Friday Jan 08, 2021
Friday Jan 08, 2021
The impact of an addiction on a partner/spouse can be significant.
In this episode I share 5 of the most commonly-seen affects addiction has on her and what she can do to start the healing process.
>>> Free Course <<<
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org to get access to a free course that I created to help you take the next steps on your journey.
You'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Thursday Dec 24, 2020
How to Heal the Core of Pornography Addiction So It Never Comes Back
Thursday Dec 24, 2020
Thursday Dec 24, 2020
There is a false idea out there that "once an addict, always an addict," and it leads people to feel hopeless and afraid that they'll have to deal with this problem for the rest of their lives...
It's not true though!
In this episode, I'll share with you the key to permanently overcome the addiction, how to address it at the core, and what you need to focus on in order to be successful in a sustainable way.
>>> Free Course <<<
Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org to get access to a free course that I created to help you take the next steps on your journey.
You'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.