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Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal.
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Thursday Jun 19, 2025
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
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Episode Description:
After porn addiction is discovered in a relationship, one question almost always rises to the surface:
“Why did you do it?”
It’s one of the most difficult conversations couples face after betrayal trauma, especially when it involves porn addiction and marriage. Wives are often left reeling — trying to make sense of what happened, searching for answers, and feeling like their entire reality has shifted. Husbands, on the other hand, feel overwhelmed, defensive, or shut down — thinking, “I already told her everything. What more can I say?”
In this episode, we break down why the question “Why did he watch porn?” keeps coming up, and why giving the “right answer” is never really the point.
We’ll explore what’s actually going on beneath the surface — and how to respond in a way that leads to emotional connection after betrayal instead of more disconnection.
You’ll learn:
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Why “just being honest” isn’t always enough to rebuild trust after pornography
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How this question is often tied to deeper needs for emotional connection and safety
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Why shame and disclosure can block real healing if not handled with clarity
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How couples can begin healing from betrayal without getting stuck in endless rehashing
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The real reason most conversations break down when porn addiction recovery begins — and how to change that dynamic
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Practical tools for both partners to navigate this with compassion and presence
If you’re navigating trust after pornography, this episode will help you stop spinning in circles and start having the conversations that actually move you forward.
Whether you're early in your porn recovery marriage journey or years into the process, this episode will help you understand how to talk through the pain — not around it — and finally feel like you're making progress together.
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